"Love", "the word is not enough"

I read it some where....."Never tell a girl that she looks like or remind you of your ex-girlfriend". Probably I did the same, it was a mistake, honesty or helplessness is a matter of perception.I believe this quote to be mere myth and there are lots of such perception within all of us. Love itself may be just a "word" for the alivement of all sort of fanatcies.

However,with the growth of professional man within myself, I started to believe.. Yes,Love exist, but somewhere in movies,books or imaginations. Existence of this divine word can survive within ourselves till  we remain teenagers or to give a better word till we are immature .

Now as I have became a bit matured guy and I can see that all the relations in this world are for mutual benefit or simply saying for "give and take". And as we practical human beings are so self centred and insensitive  believe that we believe "Love" does'nt exist.

 Love is a feeling which can exist -As  I said upto teen age, because innocence and immaturity are two sides of a coin.With the growing fight for attainment of  day to day bread & butter, comfort and luxary, the innocence within us just fade away. In every race people compete to win, for prize,happiness or pride but in our day to day race, we forget the very purpose of our racing around the world. The purpose is "happiness", the satisfaction of our soul. I hope we all remember the reason behind our race, and if not, just close down your eyes, think or rather feel what makes you happy? what is the most memorable or happy moment of our lives?? When I introspect my self, I can feel all those moment still so afresh...my childhood days, and all those stupid moments which is material or practical terms holds no value in life but actually mean alot for my very existence.

Oh, I know I am confusing all of you with every sentence.It is a topic which is so common and have been written millions of time but still when I want to write something about "Love", it is flatering me. People often ask me a common question, do you have any girlfriend or did I have one? I give  different answers to each one of them. The concept of girlfriend itself is still confusing to me. There are few people who asked me whether I ever fell in love or loved any one? I am thankful to them as because of such straight questions, my ever charming curvy face turned straight and forced me to find answer within every word I am writing in this post.

Love has no formal definition for good reasons. Does love happen only once? I don't know whether it is true or not, I don't know what is right or wrong. But I know one thing that Sometimes giving rest to the mind helps alot to the soul.

Therefore, I am writing each word which I feel is true with me and such feelings may still not be finding any place in my intellectual thought process. As I look back in my life, I feel the most happiest moment of my life happend when the mind was at rest and the emotions were at best.So I may not be convinced about what I think but very much sure about what I feel.

I feel without being confused:

• Love is an irrational feeling
• It happens only once, and if it has happend again that means the first one was'nt love.
• There is nothing called true love, as love is always true and if it is not, it a'int love.
• Love can never break any one, it can cost you material sum, but every happiness has a cost.
• Love can die, with the death of true emotions.
• No one can forget his/her first love, as I said it can happen only once...So no matter how far we move ahead in life, it doesnt fade away.
• Yes, You can remain friends with your Ex.

I appologise for the 2 paragraphs of misdirected thinking, as it is easy to give words to feelings than thoughts.I have seen many of my friends,collegues,juniors,seniors,relatives... loosing in love, confused,spoiing their lives. I just wanted to convey a message to them, if you  are unsuccessful in finding god within yourself, then try looking deeper inside instead of saying "No..he doesnt exist". And for the friends who have moved ahead in life and still are annoyed that they have compromised and are not happy about it..We fall in "Love" for chasing happiness and if by giving happiness you can get it double then dont creat unnecessary troubles.
When I try to remember the names of all historical peoples arround the world, I could not remeber the name of people who were billionaires or fighters, but the names of irrational peoples who were madly in love, do still exist in every one's mind even after 1000s of years.Probably because the glory of war & money is momentary but the fragrance of love is eternal.

I saw heaven

Heaven!

Since our childhood days, we heard allot about heaven. In the stories book, in our parents stories, in my grand mother's stories, I heard , I dreamed allot about heaven. I always imagined that there is heaven in the sky, and that is very beautiful. But by god's grace I saw heaven, I saw heaven on the earth..!

I see heaven in he beauty of nature

I wonder,

Can anything be more beautiful than nature?

In the smell of wet soil, In the season's first showers.

In the sight of young leaves of tree, in spring

In the colour of rainbow. In blue sky & green earth

In the fresh smell of flowers,

When the buds blossom into flowers,

In the beautiful colour of flowers
In the smile of flowers.

Without which, our lives would

have been so colourless!

Don't you feel happy, by seeing this sight,
Don't you feel this is heaven!

Now, When we are grown up, as we remain busy in our life, our work, We just don't know what is happening around us. We forget to see the beauty of morning, when the sun shines, the beautiful sunset, the sea shore, the beautiful evening. The beautiful moon & starry nights.
We, all are chasing our dreams, Running endlessly, we just need to stop, think, why small-small things are not giving happiness to us, what we are chasing.

I see happiness in the innocent smiles of kids, the happiness they find in the small-small things.

I find heaven in the fight of kids for sleeping near to their mom .
I see heaven in the game of kids, when they play together.

Today, I don't understand where our innocence has gone, with the growing age we loose our excitement, our spark, We forget to smile.We might not remember the first step we took, the first time we learned walking, but our parents can never forget that moment, I see heaven in the joy of parents, when their child take his first step...

In this world of competition and hatred, we are forgetting the most beautiful feeling of love. Heaven lies in the fragrance of true love & purity of emotions. Probably that make us human. When i see the most beautiful relation on this earth, the great bonding and emotions shared between a mother and her child, I feel like, i am in heaven!

Even today when i m very tired of this competition, when i feel frustrated, low and lost, When i fell ditched by my close friends, When i have so much to share but don't find any one, when i am tensed and sleepless, I go to my mother, even without saying anything, I wonder how come she understands everything, Her magical touch, and the best bed on the earth, her lap, I feel like I am in heaven, out of every trouble of this world.

Love is a feeling, which can heal all our wound, we all know this.
But we forget to say "I Love You', to our loved one, we forget to express our love, When we can express anger ,I wonder why can't love? Out of our work and busy schedule and a never ending chase for money, we forget to take out time for our family. I see heaven when I see a beautiful, happy and smiling family. When I see the love that our elder shared today, even after 50 years of their wedding. The support, the affection & the love they have for each other and they share and express with each other.








Our desires are never ending, nothing seem to satisfy us, We always feel that if we get that, I will be happy, but this desire never ends.. Some one well said that "Success is a journey, not a destination", Happiness is to be found along the way, not at the end of the road, for then the journey is over and its too late". I see heaven , when I see the satisfaction and smile on the face of unprivileged peoples. The unprivileged kids, who has nothing in materiality, but have the perfect soul, to achieve happiness & salvation.






We, human being are not self sufficient, our basic nature is kindness & to help others. Today, we are so busy in our lives, that, helping others seem to be a wastage of time to us. But I find heaven when I help some one, when I bring smile on a crying face. i see heaven, when i see the helping deed of people.

Picture speaks better than words, i just want to know by the sight of all these pictures, what could be the first reaction. I am sure, all these pictures bring smile on our faces. Smile, probably is the purest emotion of our soul. We can attain salvation, we can go to heaven only if our soul if pure. So, I saw heaven on earth, I am sure all of us will see & find heaven here one day. At last, I just want to say, please donot forget to smile & find happiness in little things. Donot forget to spend time with the beautiful nature & your loved ones. Donot forget to share & express love. Donot forget to help others, donot forget to cure others pain, if you want relief from your own.Pleas donot forget to tissue others tears, if you want to smile.

Spread happiness, spread love, spread smile all arroud the earth. Lets make this earth a beautiful place to live, let this earth smile, lets make this earth heaven, So, that we all can say that "I saw heaven".

Bring a Smile Foundation

Hi Friends

Bring a Smile Foundation

This a foundation for all of us,who endeavour to bring about a balance in the society. Who likes to see smiling faces. Lets be together to create and spread smile all across our country. The problem of India is not dearth of wealth,but the poor distribution of it.

What we need to do?

All we need to do is-

• Reduce our wasteful expenditure


• Utilise it for the help of needful section of society.

What is our role?

In order to spread smiles,we will have to fulfills people's basic needs. If we are hungry we cant smile...So all we do is-

• Collect fund from willing people ( Irrespective of quantum, we respect the willingness)


• Raise fund by initiating various activities,programmes


• Find out the genuine needy peoples ( Not just hood winkers)


• Utilise the fund for the help of needy peoples

Who are We?

We are common people of India. The youth of India,who wish to see a balance in society,who wish to see happiness and peace all across the nation. This foundation is just an initiative, a platform where we can share our thoughts and be together for the noble cause.

How we can help?

Money is just a mean and not the end. All what is needed is the wish to help. a willingness for the change. Even 1 rs contribution can bring a smile on a child's face. Our motive is to help by heart.

This country is ours,the society is ours, we cant leave everything on the administration.Please be together,take initiative and participate by soul for the noble cause.You can help by-

• Donating fund or


• Giving us ideas or


• Help us in finding out the needy peoples or


• Participate in activities conducted by us or


• Help people directly.

What is the basic need of society?

Good nutrition,education and health is the right & need of every Indian. Our government has failed to achieve these basic rights for every one.Now its the time for us to take an initiative.

We wish to see a healthy India, Educated India.........Happy India....!!